Hope

For people like me, that had cancer and had to undergo chemotherapy, once treatments are finished all we want is to go on and lead our normal lives. Normal for me a year ago included starting a family, unfortunately chemotherapy, which is in many cases potentially damaging to the ovarian function, has reduced my chances of ever having children to virtually zero. It is cruel and hard to accept, and although infertility is not a life-threatening condition, I find it in a way worse than cancer itself. Before chemotherapy started I did what I could (or what science and medicine offered me) to save some of my eggs, it wasn't as successful as I had hoped and I wish I had read this a year ago: http://www.lifeonice.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=47&Itemid=27
It is possible to have ovarian tissue frozen and then implanted back once all treatments are finished. It is a new and little-known technique with only a few successful cases, but it sounds promising and I hope it can be developed and used in the future to help women in child bearing age that are diagnosed with cancer and have to deal with infertility.
It has also recently been in the news that new studies have shown that taking Tamoxifen for five years is more effective than taking it for shorter periods of time. It has even been suggested that it should be taken by women at risk of developing breast cancer as a preventive measure. I am more and more convinced that despite the terrible side effects (and I can tell you they are not pleasant at all) I will take it for the full five years. Even if that means that I will be 41 by the time I can even think of having the embryo implanted and try to conceive. There's no point in taking risks, becoming a mother (although with only one embryo I know that my chances of getting pregnant are less than 0,5%) and then falling ill again, it does not sound like a good plan to me.